去了，又回来了。

上个星期到kukup游玩了。
我们这一班自从毕业后也聚了几次。起初只是女子之间相聚，最早也只有我和新加坡三位美女四个人，到后来这里柔佛的，吉隆坡的，到男子马六甲的。最多的人最齐的就是我结婚的时候了。但是却没拍到照。
这次也一样，早早就要订时间了，定了二月二十，也没想过会选到近元宵的周末。我还以为大家都会临时发现是元宵必须回家和家人过元宵而放飞机，没想到原来在西马，元宵只是一个屁。哈哈哈哈。
其实起初说去kukup的时候我也犹豫了。去过了一次，就像一个小渔村，家家户户都在海边上，大家都骑摩多踏脚车。没什么景点，不过度假屋肯定是备有卡拉OK和麻将扑克牌。我们的配套是10个人的，但是我们只有九个人，就大家分一分。配套也包出海，到红树林和海上养鱼场，包N餐，现场煮烤，不够再叫，吃到你饱。俗语说，去游玩除了看地方以外，也要看和谁去。这句话我也就收了。在那里唱歌唱到喉咙沙沙，麻将打了一圈又一圈。我们女子是没赌钱啦，因为我不赌，大家也都没赌。但是男子就整个晚上都在赌。我们也走路出去找那里最出名的椰子布丁，本来看到它本来所在的档子竟然整个建筑物都在装修后，心想是吃不到的了，但是回家的路上竟然又遇见它，原来搬了个家。椰子布丁好贵啊，一箱5粒要RM50。但是它是人间极品，所以还是买了。
吵吵闹闹到半夜差不多一点半，大家都累了。但是罗淑萍小姐是不醉不睡的，要拉着我们聊天亮。我和李嘉欣才不理，躺下去马上就睡着了，剩下可怜的雪梨小姐，听说被折磨到三点半四点。
第二天就是拍照时间了，拍呀拍，这拍拍那拍拍。午餐吃了海皇海鲜楼。吃好饭就走路到海鲜楼小巷子后面去买缤纷果冻乌龟糕。又是个土产，真的好吃尤其是玉米的。男子一粒一口吞下去。
后来就回来了，累死睡了一个下午。
阿呆这次不能够来，所以自己一模把我们拍的照吧自己PS进去。笑翻。
完毕。

有些人，有些事，无法取代。

传说中 宇宙最强姐妹团

从左至右 ： 派特力，祈毅，芬芬，慧诗，晓君，龙新娘，小霏，慧瑜，嘉欣，雪梨，淑萍

家乡婚礼终于结束了。说累还真的还好而已，新娘子就只是做着等待，真正累的，就是我的姐妹团了。当初找她们做姐妹的时候大家都一口答应，兴致勃勃，人受欢迎就是这样啦，科科。我总共有十位姐妹，其中包括了两个姐妹瓜。找男子做姐妹我是觉得没什么新鲜了，倒是家人朋友都觉得我脑袋烧了 哈哈哈。怎么可以不叫他们俩呢？姐妹里有五个是大学同学，两个是新山教会朋友，三个是家乡老朋友。噢，忘了，还有一个小弟弟在其中一个姐妹的肚子里，成为史上最年轻姐妹瓜。

从左至右说起吧。
派特力 A.K.A 道明寺。那个道明寺头真的不错的。他是我中六的难兄难弟，我们都混在一起的。我还记得我们又一次四个人玩网上游戏玩到凌晨四点多还不舍得睡觉。到我回家的那段日子他也充当司机，载我的同学游山玩水。呜呜呜

祈毅。好听的叫单纯，难听的叫呆头呆脑哈哈哈哈哈。你看他的脸和笑容，什么烦恼都会不见的。看照片里就知道了，拿着那一朵玫瑰，笑得见牙不见眼是他的特征。

芬芬。就是肚子里有个小弟弟的妈妈。别看他瘦瘦的，他已经生过一个孩子了！好细心，好友才华的妈妈。我大多的婚纱也是他帮忙选的，让我做个漂酿的新娘子。

慧诗。是我大学其中一个同学。心细得不得了，我从来没遇过一个女子可以细腻到这种程度。他也是我现在公司的同事，在公在私都忙了我超多。

晓君。这个不用多讲啦，请参考上两篇post。

小霏 A.K.A ivy。傻乎乎的，但是做菜一流啊。我和他相识在军营里，是我隔壁的隔壁床。瘦瘦的，前阵子大学时期还有双下巴的，现在双下巴到我这里来了。大学四年，煮了超多好料给我吃，养得我白白胖胖。

慧瑜。他是我大学的第一个朋友。那是在大学没几个从一样家乡来的。我记得那时坐在车上，学长们一个一个载我们那一批报到的学弟学妹们到各自的宿舍，载到最后只剩我和她，我纳闷，怎么他不下车，结果发现原来是同系的。笑死了。

嘉欣。他是我大学四年里，和我睡了三年的女子。超级闷骚，不时不时会一直引诱我和她一起冲凉，三年里我成功保住我的贞操。yeah

雪梨 A.K.A 阿果。为何叫他阿果呢？因为当初我们天天一起吃晚餐他都点果条。他说他爱吃果条。你现在问我他的真名我还要停下来想一想呢。

罗淑萍。超级无敌单纯女。大嗓子。我的鸡同学。什么感觉心情都写在脸上。他有一个开关键，一旦打开了我们其他人晚上都不用睡了。他会拖着我们要聊天光。

没什么好说的，只觉得好感谢我的姐妹们捍卫争取我婚后的福利，科科。大家都很卖命地千方百计阻止新郎和弟兄团，也听说被欺负了好多。多数一零吉红包就算了，包十仙也都算了，竟然还放名卡红包！各位姐妹们，新郎被我拉耳朵了，安心吧。曲曲折折，最后大家都达到目标了吧。

幸苦了我的姐妹团，能够让我当天不流汗，没当个落妆新娘。有缘无缘我们都要在某某某的婚礼上再见。好不好好不好。

♛

上帝的孩子是蒙福的，我是蒙福的。
一直以来，总有一招能够化所有问题为乌有，我总是屡试不爽，却也总是在面对问题时最看不到的方法。
工作了一年多，你说没工作压力那是骗人的。如果没压力，那我看也不需要再继续了。对我来说，没压力是一件难求的事。不论是在大学赶毕业论文的时候，住院的时候，还是现在工作的时候。我很努力回想我压力的时候是怎样的心情，很努力很努力，但是总觉得现在已经不能感受到那时候的心情了。免不了觉得压力个屁嘛，小事一桩。我也有我的压力，但是时间不会很长，一个月已经是超长的了。在我压力的时候，我不会去登报纸，可能会偷偷告诉朋友们我的压力，但是没几个会知道，就算知道了，也已经是压力后期了。
你说呀，你还有个萧先生和你分担，压力就减半啦。我只能说，我太了解这个男子，了解到我用膝盖想都知道如果我告诉他，他的反应会是如何。他的回答会是，小事啊。
前一阵子，我面对工作极大的压力，也是到目前为止人生中最漫长的压力日子。每天起床我会坐在被窝里，反反复复心里呐喊不想去上班，天天都在希望今天是星期五那该有多好。晚上在被窝里，我不刷feed，我看着天花板，思考自己是否从一开始就做错了选择。那种日子好漫长，没人倾诉，不会倾诉。每次看着萧先生都必须装作正常，言语间不能透漏半点压力。一半压力也原始于他，他是个很能干的人。你说有多能干就有多能干。刻苦耐劳，上到山下油锅。这样一个人，压力会是多大呢。不懂，不知道，我只知道，自己和他相比，渺小的像一粒沙。所以我没告诉他，他不该多操一份心。他也会觉得我很多余，根本小事一桩，烦得哭爹喊娘。
有天晚上，也许到了极限吧，我在朋友群组里发了我好孤单的字眼，就去睡了。朋友们不知所措，从来我是最没有压力的一个。朋友说，为什么不和萧先生分担呢。我关掉电话。暗暗的房间里，我自己一个人。我想起了爱我的上帝。一个月也不是说没祷告过，天天祷告，但是却还把包袱背在自己身上。那一夜，我完全放弃了。放弃了自己的努力，也有些歇斯底里了。我说，你到底要我学习什么呢？什么都好，我不想再理了，你能解决，你来解决。大哭了一场，就睡去了。那晚睡得特别香甜。第二天依然去上班，问题就那样解决了。我不懂为何，但是就那样问题消失了。
第二天晚上，我告诉了萧先生我的烦恼与压力，如我所料，他说是个小问题。芝麻绿豆小事，他问我怎么解决的。我说就那样解决了。不需要你，就解决了。他或许是有些吓到了吧，发现，在我很苦恼的时候，他一点蛛丝马迹都不知道，也有点内疚想哭吧，在我需要的时候，他不在也不知道。我呢，就一切泰然。还好我靠的不是他。
放弃，也许并不是一件坏事。放弃努力，放弃自己，只管让上帝来解决。
对于婚礼，我也只管放弃。毕竟，最重要的，我已经抓住了。

Our little precious gathering

Finally get my lazy bones to work to update on my very precious course mate gathering.

Last last last last weekend, my ex course mates all flooded in to JB for gathering. We planned it very early, because whatever we planned last minute, even one week before, not many are actually available anymore. I think we planned this in one month advance, somewhere around in late May so as to get everybody to save the date for this. After all, we longed to meet up so much that I got viral to spam our whatsapp group every day.

The gathering was suggested by Shelly, who happened to ffk us twice (and I think she might be a little guilty for this), and was planned only for the girls. I suggested to invite the boys along, this idea struck me when i was wechatting our Prom King, JC. Well, boys being boys, JC got all the boys to agree to storm down to JB hahaha. Maybe they longed for the gathering for quite some times too.

The days before this gathering seemed extra long to me. And finally, they were here.

Those working in Singapore, they actually walked N-km passed Singapore custom bridge to reach Malaysia. Hoho. I picked up the girls in the middle of the night from both CS and Larkin Sentral. Once I reached home, brushed up, immediately I climbed up to the bed and pretended to fall asleep, because if I didnt do so, a 38 po would ask me for bedtime stories, again and again. And for that night, I was not the victim. hahahah.

We woke up considerably early to wait to meet up with the guys, driving all the way down from Malacca and KL. They promised us 11am to meet at Sutera Mall. As expected, they arrived at 12.30pm. How many times do we need to go through this? hahaha. Went to Nyjumaru for lunch, to Taman Molek for afternoon tea break, to Ecoworld Windmill Festival and finally to Daorae for Korean BBQ. Didnt really expect them to agree to dine Korean BBQ because we have one vegetarian course mate. But, craving satisfied, with quite a nice price to pay. 30++ MYR for BBQ Beef. Oooh drools.

Just gonna dump all the photos liao. I blog during working hours what.

Happy Graduation!

I waited 4 years for this moment, with my classmates. Though not all are in this gif, but it is suffice for now. Yahoo! :')

Gonna blog more about this, when I got time for this. :D

新加坡•小瓜•KitKat

刚从新加坡会到来，趁着头发还没干，来哈啦哈啦一下吧。
今天去新加坡也不是真的那么突然，小霏在上星期就提过一起去了，那是也说好。但是好死不死红阿姨来访，有气无力的，小霏昨晚问我去吧我还犹豫了一下下。就那样犹豫到了早上，才说好吧，就去吧！
通知了家人，通知了萧养豪，就这样出门了。
这次是和小霏和她家人们一起去，五个大人，两个小孩。
带小孩出门真的不容易，一下要自己玩，一下又累料讨抱。最后还因为彻底累坏了而大声哭闹。好气又好笑。
姐姐懂，姐姐真的懂那种眼皮很重，但是又不能睡觉的感觉。常常发生的嘛。
没买什么东西，最喜欢去新加坡Bugis买KitKat了，上次买了绿茶口味的，好吃得不得了。马来西亚卖的比较贵，一包差不多RM20＋＋，新加坡两包买$10。你说，是不是该狠狠扫货呀？不过这次没买很多，因为没换很多钱去。这次去还多了很多其他口味，买了黑巧克力，粉红色樱花，还有烤起司口味的，这些比较新的口味三包$18。要不是因为我没微波炉，不然还真想试一试烤起司口味。
说着说着，现在sibeh后悔没买多一些回来，一半也怕它融化，因为天气热，而且Bugis是第一站，怕拿回来马来西亚已经变KitKat水了。
后悔死了。
再去了Marina Bay Sands赌场，我还是第一次去。好奇，听说赌场都会摆阵，进去赌钱都会被迷住，什么两个入口一个出口，什么狮子头像，什么所有的水都流进赌场，水代表财。进去看了看，还真的是有。
而我，进去喝了两杯免费的Minute Maid橙汁，绕一绕就出来了。
过后就去了Gardens By The  Bay，我还没去过的。
就一些花花草草，特别的，漂亮的，不过我是没什么欣赏啦，因为天气热死人，我忙着找地方遮荫。
在GBTB逗留了一整个下午，又走路绕了一大圈回到车站，这时，我的肚子已经打大鼓了。
去到Orchard，找到小霏住在新加坡工作的堂姐（堂姐很美哟），就开始找食物吃了。那时刚刚好下班时间，餐厅间间都高朋满座，还好最后找到了。
你别看我没去什么地方，吃好饭就已经八点半了。时间有点晚了，就打算搭车回去了。从Orchard搭到Kranji，天啊，是火车开得特别慢还是我的错觉，搭了一个小时多 =.= 小瓜们在火车上睡得香，小弟弟到站了却还没睡饱，已经到了极限，但是被逼被吵醒，就哭到差一点吐了。他是真的累死了。
上了巴士，在去到Woodlands的途中，弟弟还打算睡，但是时间太短了，我们大人不让他睡。我看他好可怜。两颗小小的眼睛一直往下掉，眉头也皱了，但是大人说不能睡，不能睡。
还好Woodlands回来一路通顺，一下就回国了。
回到家，我也累了，但是还没冲凉的呀！
说真的，一个人这么晚冲凉我还是有些犹豫，但是总不能脏兮兮地上床睡觉吧。只好硬着头皮，快快冲好，冲到楼上温暖的房间。
好了，打到这里，我的头发也干了。
拜。

my big day

it was my birthday yesterday.

after 2 years leaving home and settling down in Johor for my study, this year is my first year of feeling 'it is my birthday!' lol. things like friends treating you special on your birthday.

there is absolutely no different for my sleeping time on my birthday. no delayed bedtime, no delayed wake up time.
i muted my phone on 23rd September night before i went to bed because... you know la haha.
i dont like to be disturbed by continuous text tone when im sleeping ill get boloco.
to prevent from getting boloco on my birthday, i muted the phone.
had a good night sleep.
my friends acutally stayed up late for my birthday but i was sleeping soundly already haha.

among my coursemates, there are 3 september babies.
Jee Cheng (18th September), Hui Shi (20th September) and me (24 September). 

one friday afternoon, we decided to go out for birthday lunch. we ate. lol. just simple lunch at a simple western restaurant.

i was so anti-social when we came to class gathering lol and i wonder why.
i tend to fall silence when we bunch of girls are joined by the guys.
what is happening to me hahaha.
and so, i only took photos of the food.
.____. sorry for that.

Sunday was my pre-birthday day. 

my boyfie initially was not free because he had to attend meetings. 

for that reason, ivy and hui yii decided that they would sacrifice their beautiful Sunday night to cook me a birthday dinner. 

it was Achilles, Ivy's boy, cooking that night. the couple is really good in culinary yum yum. 

i recalled of the slight weeping during my meal prayer. okay i feel loved.

oh thank God for the friends. 

in the end, my boyfie's meeting was cancelled and he gladly joined us at the dinner.

after the meal, the boys tied up boyfie because they prepared birthday prank. 

i was upstairs in Ivy's room when that happened. 

i remembered them posting a photo of him being tied in the corner up to Facebook but i guess they deleted it because i couldnt find it anymore on Facebook. 

i was dumbfounded seeing him tied up when they dragged me downstairs lol. their prank failed because i did not bring any changing clothes. phew.

and then we went to Giant because i said i wanna get some Haagen-Dazs ice cream haha. felt good being the birthday girl.

before i went back home, Ivy gave me my birthday present.

Hada Labo Arbutin Whitening Mask.

she must have peeked through my wardrobe haha. :D

and hui yii gave me this. nature republic lip balm.
this smells so good the scent filled up my room when i first opened it.

and i received a love letter post from jun haha. loved.

my dad posted a lot of pictures on Facebook for me.
he couldnt give me anything so he posted a lot of my favourite food.
my parents even wrote a letter to me.

 he torn down the calendar page of my birthday and wrote me a smexy letter.

find it so coincidence because spotted my name at the right bottom corner!

lol how creative is my parents. havent mentioned about the love.

so this year, they gave me music!

okay, loved again.

now you may wonder what did my boyfie gave me.
he was actually worried about this for quite a period of time.
he intended to give me a cooling sleeping tilam.
but then he knew i cant withstand cold things ill get headache ill whine all day.
then he decided to bring me shopping and bought me present on the spot.
he thought of giving me a pair of Hush Puppies shoes but the model i like is guy's model.
size 7 is like big foot monster on my foot.
then totes. i wont need that much.
then bible. i have already bought mine.
then clothes. weird choices.
then earrings. i dont like the patterns.
then phone case. ive already ordered for us.
then he got so worried and came out with the toilet bowl theory.
the one i posted as Facebook status.
大便都要出来了，马桶还没建好。
hahahahhaha my birthday was just around the corner and he had nothing to give me.
in the end, let me tell you what did he gave me.
he gave me........  nothing. lol
im totally fine with it. he had given me more than i can expect.
awwww goosebumps okay switch topic haha.

i dont used to make birthday resolutions so, ill skip that.
i received a lot of birthday wishes from texts and whatsapp, as well as Facebook.
thank you guys, for making my 22nd birthday so special.
thank you.

taiwan!

well then, finally its here. took me half a month to upload all the photos into dropbox. there are so many photos that i decided that i should delete some. ive already deleted a lot but there are still a lot. #fainted.
i uploaded them all to a photo and just by clicking a link you will be able to view them all. this saves me a lot of time instead of uploading all the photos here and making the page jammed when you guys try to load my page haha.
uploaded preview of each days photos.

Day 1 : 台中蓬甲

Day 2 :清境

Day 3 : 观星园

Day 4, 5 : 高雄

Day 6,7,8,9 : 台北

for more, •CLICK HERE•

sorry for the laziness. :p